I need to talk. And if anyone is listening, please help me stay rational. If you have any advice, now would also be a good time to dispense it.

Here's my story. I've had a crush on the same guy for many months. We've gotten to know each other somewhat, and most of the time I would consider us friends. His name is Moby.

Sometimes Moby acts like he enjoys my company, and seems to pay me special attention. Other times, I am left to wonder if he even considers us friends. His erratic behavior confuses and frustrates me.

The problem is partially my fault. I am the worst at showing someone that I like him. I suppose it stems from my fears of rejection, but the fact is, my behavior is probably as inconsistent toward him as his is toward me.

The issue is two-fold. One is that I need closure on things. If he is interested in me, perfect. Something needs to happen. If not, then at least I can get on with my life. I just know I cannot go on wondering and living on a crush I've had for eight months.

The second part of the problem is that he is probably moving from the area in a month. Another reason I feel the need to get it out of my system now.

Since I suck at showing my feelings naturally, my friends think I should tell him straight up that I'm interested in him.

Problem: My rejection issues. Since his behavior is so erratic, I have no idea what he really thinks of me. For the most part, I don't really have a reason to believe he is interested.

So do I tell him anyway? At least if he rejects me I can move on to other guys. As it is, Moby gets in the way of any other feelings I could have for other guys.

I suppose I will tell him. I can't imagine what I have to lose, except for my pride. He already acts strange around me, so it can't get much worse than that. Plus he's probably moving anyway.

Advice, anyone?

Song playing on my life soundtrack: Back on Your Side, Chris Isaak

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